Thursday, June 12, 2008

The Accident

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Short Talk:
So much has happen in such a short time.

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So much has happened in my life. So much that it is hard to explain.

3rd of June 2008 marks a new chapter in my life. In my 4 years of driving experience never had I met with such things. I was involved in a 3 car pile up. The worst part was that I was the last car.

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It was raining that day, the road was slippery. I was on my way to pick a friend up for lunch. I wanted that friend to help me out with some stuff which I don't know how to do. I wanted to bless a dear friend who meant a lot to me. Never had I thought before I can perform that task in the temple, I had my car crashed into another car's back. The accident was pretty serious in a way. The car in front of me rammed into another car in front of him first before I came in from the back.

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the bonnet was bent car plate chipped off
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headlamps broken

I really don't blame anyone for this now, its just fate. Even though at that time and a few days at that time I blame the guy one car in front of me who made an emergency brake for no reason and caused this accident. All that is in the past.

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The front seat passenger side door could not be open.

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After the accident, my relationship with my mother has gone sour, I got used to it. To her, I am just a bad son and a useless one. She says she has given up on me. Can't blame her much. No matter what I have done its never good enough for her. She likes to compare me with all the cousin's saying how I should be like them.... but that is another story.

Because of the accident I also had a traffic police fine of RM300 for no reason at all. Stated that I drove recklessly on the road. The police was just a piece of useless crap who talks crap all the tome when I was writing my report. The police could not even type or use the computer properly. How sad can Malaysian police be?

With the fine and repair works I had to pay RM875 in total....

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The old scare...from last year

After the accident, it has open my eyes to a lot of things. I realized how one's life could be very fragile and you will never know what will happen next in a split of a second. I could have died in that accident... or I could have killed someone in that accident.

How I wish... I died in that accident... how I wish earlier on this year while I was crossing the road, the truck that nearly hit me...would just actually hit me and let me leave this world......


5 comments:

Angel Valerie said...

life is fragile.

i cant deny this fact. u cant predict what will happen to u in the next second.

u made me so wanna fly there n give u a big bear hug (if only that can make u feel better)...

u're being someone in a lifetime so, u're NOT useless. prove to others that u can excel in life too.

remember u have one guardian angel in me?

be strong, okie, sweetie?

Anonymous said...

bro, u know u are a very special person in this world...there is not another EDWIN LAU. do not give up on life or anything. things happen...

I'm just so relieved and glad that you did not get hurt. Cheer up k, bro! Be strong and tell yourself that nothing can bring you down!! Hugs!! Take good care of yourself!! Cheche wans to see a happy-go-lucky Edwin Lau when I go back o!!

Dwinz said...

hey Thanks a lot. Don't worry... I will be strong....

che lookin forward to see you. =)

Anonymous said...

Hey bro. Just read your post. Sorry u got to go through the accident. Its true that sh*t happens. That is something we cant change. But what we can change is the perception we have in this incident. Like what you say, it could have been worse. Life could be lost. But the fact is that, no lives were taken and that is good.

I believe that every bad thing that happens, a good will come into the picture. Its the balance of Yin ad Yang. In this case, the good may be that it will make you a more careful driver, thus changing what will happen in the future. You'll know that yourself. If not now, one day soon. :o)

So cheer up bro. Remember our 'date' after ur exams ya! Stay cheerful always! What had happen, had happen. See forward!

Ting said...

Hi Dwinz.

Sori to hear u involved in car accident esp a 3in1 one. Reli soi la u. Anyway, glad n happy to hear u r safe (as wat flo said). happy-go-lucky . Hope to meet u n ur che che n ur che che bf@Ron soon. hehe :)

God bless to u.. Take k, don give up easily, BRAVE enuf to face ur destiny.

*Ah xiang*